I do my thing and you do your thing. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, And you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful. If not, it can't be helped (Fritz Perls, "Gestalt Therapy Verbatim", 1969)
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I ought not have all that I ask for. I know quite well that if you give in to me, you are letting us both down and spoiling me. If you are firm with me then I know where I stand with you. I prefer firmness. Force teaches me that Power is all that counts. (Help me to be an individual that can rely on something besides force) I will readily respond...
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