by Gerry Gange | May 7, 2026 | Uncategorized
In couples therapy, people often arrive carrying years of unfinished conversations.Defensiveness. Exhaustion. Hurt. Longing. Some of these are deep resentments. Two people can sit only feet apart and still feel impossibly distant from one another. Sometimes words... by Gerry Gange | Apr 24, 2026 | Uncategorized
There is a moment in development that rarely announces itself.No clear threshold. No ritual to mark its arrival.And yet, without it, something in us remains unfinished. It is the moment we begin to let go of mother. Not in the sense of rejection or distance.Not in... by Gerry Gange | Apr 20, 2026 | Uncategorized
Alfred Adler spoke about symptoms as having purpose—sometimes serving to safeguard the ego. For Adler, emotions were not simply things that happen to us. They were not accidental storms we are caught in. They were, in many cases, used—often outside of... by Gerry Gange | Apr 15, 2026 | Uncategorized
How could an ant know it is living on Mt. Vesuvius? It moves across warm stone, feeling only what touches its body—grain, heat, the faint trembling of the ground beneath its feet. It knows the path to food, the scent of its colony, the urgency of its small and... by Gerry Gange | Apr 7, 2026 | Uncategorized
An Adlerian-Informed Framework Understanding Your “Priority” In Adlerian psychology (especially in the work of Rudolf Dreikurs), we understand that people organize their lives around a primary psychological priority. This priority is not conscious.It is...